No Community + No Faith = Insurance
December 2, 2008
I really struggle with the concept of taking out insurance. Insurance is a subtle symbol of the individualistic nature of our Western society and of the lack of faith that Christians have in God.
When I bought my car, I took out a loan (debatable whether this was a good idea). The financing company demanded that I have comprehensive insurance over my car, in the case that I write it off and cannot afford to repay the loan. I have asked myself whether I would take out insurance if I was not required to.
Life insurance is a simple example of the lack of true community with those around us and a lack of faith in God. Why do people take out life insurance? Well it’s generally so that when someone dies suddenly, a sum of money can be received by the surviving family. If the financial provider of the family passed away then the money can be used to cover living costs and any mortgage repayments. After all, if the surviving family members cannot meet their everyday expenses, they could face losing their house, forgo luxuries and maybe even struggle to put food on the table.
So why do I think insurance is such a bad thing then? Well, it minimises our need to have faith that God will look after us in times of trouble; and it also underplays our need to be part of a community of people, who can support and bless us when we fall into times of trouble.
Using the example of life insurance…
There is a lovely family: a husband, a wife and three beautiful young children. The couple have been married for 15 years and have spent the last 10 of those in their own home, which they have a mortgage over. The husband and wife both work part-time so that they can look after the children on their respective days off. One day in a sudden event, the husband passes away, survived by his wife and children. The wife quickly realises that her single salary is not enough to pay the bills as well as the mortgage. Her husband didn’t have life insurance and so she was left in financial turmoil. Even if she wanted to work full-time, she would still have to sell the house to get-by; but she’d rather continue working part-time to be able to care for her children.
Sounds like a terrible situation – it is. But what if this woman was part of a community of people that were very close and who shared life together. They meet as a group for meals regularly; they share their joys and sorrows with each other; they cook meals for their friends when they’re ill; and their children play together in the park. This community was very saddened by the death of their close friend and felt deep compassion for the rest of the family and their situation. In response to the financial strain placed upon the family, ten people within the community committed to contributing one hundred dollars a month so that the family could cover all their expenses and stay in the family home. The thought that they could be financially supporting the family for the next 20 years, until the house was paid off, did not even cross their mind. This family was their family – their community was so strong that they would do anything for each other, even if it meant sacrificing some luxuries of their own.
Sound like a nice story to you? I would love to be part of a community that was so close and so loving of each other, that doing such an act as described above, would be done without hesitation.
Western society hails the achievement of the individual and admires those who are independent and who can get-by without needing others. This is a fallacy. Real community is a central element of the Christian faith and of a healthy society. We were not made to be wandering souls without others beside us; rather we were created to enjoy full and loving community with both God and those people around us. “Love your neighbour as yourself” was Jesus’ way of saying “lend a hand to those around you as if they were your parents, your brother or your own child – someone that you would do anything for.”
Not only is this kind of community possible, but it is mandated by God, created through His Spirit and exists in pockets all throughout the World. Unfortunately the individualism of our culture has diminished the scale and impact of true community in Western nations like Australia.
I challenge you to love others as yourself and create real, lasting community with those around you. It will not only bring you closer to others, but it will bring you closer to the heart of God.
Great thoughts mate. We have no life insurance partly because we believe family is for supporting those in need as well church.
Perhaps where I feel a little uneasy is that in this ‘insurance based world’ I don’t want to appear irresponsible and expect others to care for my family when I ‘haven’t’ (by providing insurance)
Andrew, you make a good point: Where is the line drawn between having faith and using the wisdom and intelligence that God has given us? I have not fully concluded on this and cannot say that ‘insurance is bad’, because it is not clear-cut. For example, I do think that an American citizen would be foolish not to take out health insurance in that country (if they can afford it), because of the absence universal health care.
Your concerns about not wanting to appear irresponsible by expecting others to care for your family is understandable, but perhaps that concern is a product of the ingrained individualism of our culture…?
Insurance companies will nearly always be taking more money than what they are returning, that’s how they make a profit. So from a gambler’s point of view, you lose overall by having insurance.
Not paying money for insurance leaves you more money for when things go wrong, either for you or for someone else in your community. On average you win. (And the times God’s family realise we’re a family, we all win).
I don’t think that life insurance is such a bad idea. Roger has it. We have a mortgage of over $2,000 per month, and we bought a very averagely priced house. If the worst happened I know that Evie & I could move in with family & that we’ve got lovely people around us who would cook us meals & look after us.
What if I wanted to continue living in our home? I don’t think that even pooled money from friends could cover our mortgage & living expenses, which is where the life insurance would be handy, it would pay off the mortgage.
What if I wanted to continue as home-mum with Evie? I could sell our place & move into a rental place (or with family) and use the life insurance to live off for a few years.
What’s wrong with that? I don’t feel that life insurance means that I have no faith in God or community.
It’s interesting,…just today God gave me a revelation of what great friends I have,…yes you are on of the ones who impacted and blessed my life abundantly and I realized again how important friends (community) are.
I think you took a really good approach on the topic of insurance. I never thought about it this way, it’s a great way of thinking, thank you for sharing it. It confirms some other struggles I had (have),…my family expects me to study or learn something so that I have a security (to earn money etc.)…but what if God doesn’t want me to? somehow I feel I have to learn something sometimes, because I need insurance and security for later,…but that takes and limits the faith in God, as you described it. It gave me an understanding that even if other people expect things and it seems irresponsible,…in the end it’s about trusting God and doing what He wants.
And I agree on the community thing,…I wish I would be able to be more in community, than I already am!
well done Sue!!!